Kids Say The Funniest Things

Every day I take our seven year old Labrador (Cruz) for a four to five kilometre walk along our local beach pathway. I am so fortunate to live a street back from one of the best beaches on the south coast. 

We meet so many dog owners, holiday makers and other locals that our normal hourly walk ends taking double. We are always stopping to have a chat and both Cruz and I have made many new friends. 

As the weather warms up, more people are out enjoying the beach, which makes our walks even longer as there's more people to chat to. I love meeting new people, hearing where they are from and what they do.

I often get asked why I'm in a wheelchair or what happened to me, which I've got no issue discussing as I am quite open about my injury. The questions I love the most are from kids. They are just so honest and kids have a wonderful curiosity that I find so amazing. 

 

Today I was walking Cruz (as usual) and we bumped into a young mother and her son who would have been maybe five or six. The mum started the chat with the normal questions like what's the dogs name?How old is he? Etc. 

Then the young boy stares at the chair with an inquisitive look and I know what he is about to ask, which is what makes my day. 

First he asks why do I need the chair and my usual response is, "One day I was naughty and I didn't listen to my mum, I hurt my neck so now I need the chair." The mother normally likes that answer. 

Next he looks at the controller and wants to press the buttons and move the joystick, which the mum quickly tells the boy that, "You can't touch that" and apologies to me. Where I reply with, "No problem". 

Then he looks at the chair again and I know the next question as it's my favourite. He says, "Can you jump out so I can have a go?" At that point the mum cannot believe what he said and starts apologising. I assure her that it's fine and tell the boy, "I would love to let him have a go, but unfortunately I need it to get around, as my legs no longer work." He was a little confused, but accepted it and said "Ok, that's a bit sad."

I guess the point of the story is that curiosity is natural and something we all experience. Allow your children to ask questions of people in wheelchairs or other disabilities. If they ask something that may seem inappropriate then just simply explain that I might not be the right question. Don't avoid wheelchair users out of fear of offending us. You never know, you might just make our day.

Andy :)